Why Building Small Agreements in Mediation Leads to Faster Fairer and More Confident Settlements
Why Building Small Agreements in Mediation Leads to Faster Fairer and More Confident Settlements Ending a relationship is never straightforward. Whether the separation is amicable or…
What Happens if Mediation Fails? A Practical Guide
Divorce can be a stressful and emotional process and dealing with financial settlements adds another layer of complexity. Many people choose financial settlement mediation in Hampshire & Surrey as a calm, neutral way to resolve property, pensions, debts and other financial matters. But what if mediation doesn’t lead…
The Benefits of Mediation in Resolving Family Conflicts
Family conflicts are an inevitable part of life. Whether it's a disagreement minor issues or more serious issues like divorce, child custody, or inheritance disputes, conflict is bound to arise. In these moments, finding a resolution that is fair, amicable and respects the emotions of all parties involved becomes crucial.…
Divorce and Your Mental Health: The Importance of Seeking Professional Support
Divorce is a seismic life event that can have far-reaching effects on an individual's mental health. The emotional toll of ending a marriage is profound, encompassing…
Navigating the Holidays: A Comprehensive Guide to Coping with the First Christmas After Divorce
The holiday season, with its festive cheer and family gatherings, can become a complex emotional terrain for those who have recently gone through a divorce, particularly parents facing their first Christmas without their children. This…
Understanding Financial Consent Orders: A Comprehensive Guide
Understanding Financial Consent Orders: A Comprehensive Guide Introduction In the complex landscape of divorce proceedings, financial matters often stand out as critical elements that demand careful consideration. Among the various tools available to safeguard the financial interests of both parties involved, a Financial Consent Order emerges as a pivotal document. This comprehensive…
The Psychology of Conflict Resolution
Conflict is an inevitable part of human interaction. Whether it's a disagreement with a friend, a clash of ideas at…
How to Make Divorce Less Stressful
A Comprehensive Guide on How to Make Divorce Less Stressful Introduction Divorce is a challenging life transition that can evoke a wide range of emotions, from grief and anger to confusion and anxiety. The process…
Mediation in the Workplace: Enhancing Employee Relations for a Harmonious Work Environment
Mediation in the Workplace: Enhancing Employee Relations for a Harmonious Work Environment In the dynamic landscape of the modern workplace, conflicts among employees are inevitable. Whether rooted…
A Comprehensive Guide to Effective Communication
Embarking on the journey of mediation is a unique opportunity for positive change. It's a chance to address conflicts directly, fostering resolutions that benefit all parties involved. At the heart of this transformative process lies effective communication.…
Mediation in the Digital Age: Navigating Conflict Resolution Online
In today's digital age where the virtual realm is deeply integrated into our daily lives, it's no surprise that mediation, a traditional form of conflict resolution, has adapted and embraced digital transformation. This evolution is often referred to as Online Dispute Resolution (ODR),…
Co-Parenting Success: Tips for Effective Communication After Divorce
Divorce can be a challenging and emotionally charged process, especially when children are involved. However, it doesn't mark the end of your relationship with your ex-spouse; it transforms it into a co-parenting partnership. Successful co-parenting hinges on effective communication, which benefits not…
The Impact of Divorce on Children
The Impact of Divorce on Children: Signs to Watch For and How to Help Divorce is a complex and emotionally charged experience for all parties involved, but it can be particularly challenging for children. The dissolution of their parents' marriage can…
The Benefits of an Amicable Divorce Settlement
Divorce is undoubtedly one of life's most challenging experiences, both emotionally and financially. The dissolution of a marriage often involves a complex web of emotions, legal processes and financial considerations. However amid the turmoil, there's a path that can lead to a smoother transition—the amicable divorce settlement. In…
Impact of Social Media on Divorce
In the digital age, social media has become an integral part of our lives. It connects us with friends, family and even strangers from around the world. However, the same platforms…
What is Parental Responsibility?
Parental Responsibility (PR) is a legal term that outlines the rights, duties, powers, responsibilities and authority parents have regarding their child’s upbringing and well-being. In the United Kingdom PR is a fundamental concept in family law, guiding decisions related to a child’s upbringing, education, healthcare and overall welfare. This blog…
Representing Yourself In Court
A litigant in person, often referred to by the abbreviation "LiP," is an individual who has made the conscious decision to represent themselves in legal proceedings, foregoing the involvement or representation of a solicitor or barrister. This choice can be influenced by…
The Phenomenon of Grey Divorce
Navigating Life's Later Chapters In recent decades a new trend has emerged in the realm of relationships and family dynamics: the "grey divorce." This term refers to the…
The Emotional Toll of Divorce
The Emotional Toll of Divorce: Navigating a Sea of Emotions Divorce is a life-altering event that marks the end of a significant chapter in a person's life.…
Managing Long-Distance Child Arrangements
Nurturing Relationships In today's increasingly globalized world it is not uncommon for parents to find themselves living in different cities, counties or even countries. When a family faces the challenge of managing long-distance child arrangements, maintaining…
Being a Litigant in Person in Financial Proceedings
Navigating the Legal Landscape Alone: Financial proceedings within the United Kingdom's legal system can be intricate and demanding, particularly during divorce or separation. When one embarks on…
Adversarial Court Process
Navigating the adversarial court process for financial orders during a divorce in the UK can be a challenging and complex experience. In the United Kingdom, obtaining a fair and just financial settlement is critical to ensure the well-being and…
Achieving Fairness in Marital Financial Settlements
Marital financial settlements hold immense importance in divorce proceedings within the UK, ensuring an equitable division of assets and liabilities. This article delves…
How To Be A Good Single Parent
Navigating Parenthood Solo: A Guide to Being a Good Single Parent Introduction Being a single parent comes with its unique set of challenges and rewards. It necessitates strength, resilience and love beyond measure. The journey of single parenthood demands courage and determination to provide…
The Pitfalls of a 'Kitchen Table Agreement' in Divorce Financial Settlements
Divorce can be a complex and emotionally charged process, especially when it comes to dividing assets and settling financial matters. In some cases, couples attempt to reach an agreement without involving formal legal procedures, often referred to as a "kitchen table agreement." While this approach…
How to Broach the Subject of Divorce
A Guide to Delicate Conversations. Divorce is a deeply personal and emotionally charged topic and discussing it with your spouse is a delicate matter. This conversation can shape the future for both parties, impacting not only the couple but also children, family and…
A Guide to Life After Divorce
Life After Divorce in a Digital Age Divorce remains a significant life-altering event and the process of adjusting to life after divorce continues to evolve. The…
Who Are CAFCASS?
CAFCASS stands for the Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service It is an important agency in the United Kingdom, operates independently and is responsible for representing the interests of children involved…
Most Common Reason for Divorce in the UK
The reasons for divorce in the UK are many and varied: here are some of the re-occurring and most common reasons: Communication Breakdown In many cases, the breakdown of effective communication…
The No Fault Divorce System in the UK
The UK’s No-Fault Divorce Process: A Breakthrough in Marital Dissolution Divorce has long been a challenging and emotionally taxing process, both for the parties involved and the legal system. In the UK the process of divorce has traditionally been…
Pension Sharing on Divorce
Pensions are considered to be marital assets and must be taken into account in the divorce financial settlement. A pension can be either: • Defined benefit pension or a…
What If I Do Not Agree to Mediation?
If you choose not to agree to mediation in the UK, there are several potential consequences that you should be aware of. Mediation is a process that involves a neutral third party assisting disputing parties in reaching a mutually acceptable resolution. It's often used in various legal…
Consequences Of Not Following A Child Arrangements Order
In the UK when a court issues a child arrangements order, it outlines the specific arrangements regarding the living and contact arrangements for a child when their parents are separated or divorced. This order…
Effects of Separation and Divorce on Children
The effects of parents splitting up on children are profound and far-reaching, influencing their emotional, psychological and social well-being. Divorce or…
When A Child Doesn't Want to Visit Other Parent
Navigating a Delicate Situation: When a Child Doesn't Want to Go to the Other Parent Divorce or separation can be a tumultuous experience for all parties…
What Is A Child Arrangements Order?
A Child Arrangements Order (CAO) in the United Kingdom is a legal instrument of considerable significance, established under the aegis of the Children Act 1989. This legislative provision is designed to…
Mediation Services in the UK
Mediation Services in the UK: Facilitating Resolution and Enhancing Relationships Mediation has emerged as a vital and effective process in resolving conflicts across various domains within the United Kingdom. With its emphasis on fostering open communication, understanding and compromise, mediation services play a pivotal role…
Your Guide To Child Maintenance
Child maintenance is a crucial aspect of ensuring the well-being of children after a separation or divorce. In the United Kingdom, the government…
A Comprehensive Guide to Child Arrangements
Child arrangements (often referred to as child custody or parenting plans), play a crucial role in ensuring the well-being and stability of children whose parents are separated or divorced. Creating effective child arrangements requires careful consideration, open communication and a focus on the children’s best interests. In this…
Ultimate Guide To Mediation
Mediation is a process of resolving conflicts between parties with the help of a neutral third party, often referred to as a mediator. Here's the ultimate mediation guide to help facilitate effective dispute resolution: The Mediator will: 1. Define Mediation Scope: Identify the issues to be mediated…
Impact of Going to Court for a Child Arrangements Order
Going through a child arrangements court case can be a challenging and emotionally taxing experience for all parties involved - most importantly, the children. • Emotional Stress Child arrangements cases often involve high…
Financial Considerations Relating to Separation & Divorce
A divorce or breakdown of a marriage can have significant financial implications for both parties involved. Some of the key financial aspects to consider are: 1. Division of…
Family Mediation
Family mediation can help you resolve issues arising from relationship or family breakdowns. It can also help you save money by avoiding using expensive solicitors whose charges can easily run away with you. If you end up going to court,…
Pension Sharing on Divorce
The value of any pension assets must be taken into account in any divorce settlement (also applies to civil partnerships) If there is a disparity in how much each party has by way of total pension provision, there may well…
Financial Consent Orders
WHAT IS A CONSENT ORDER? Sometimes referred to as a 'clean break order', a consent order is an agreement between two consenting adults which details…
No Fault Divorce
No fault divorce came into effect in England and Wales in April 2022. This means that couples are now able to get divorced without one person needing to blame the other. This change in the law also applies to civil partnership dissolution. Stages of 'No Fault Divorce' 1.…
5 Considerations For Couples Who Have Decided To Separate
CONSIDERATIONS 1. Remember that your partner might not be on the same page as you. You may have decided that you want to separate a long time ago but that’s not necessarily the case…
Mediation V Court - Pros & Cons
COST Mediation: is a much more cost effective way to resolve a dispute. The role of a good mediator is to get you to an agreement as quickly as possible, thereby avoiding the need for endless sessions of mediation. Court: is very expensive and will easily run into the…
What are the benefits of family mediation?
For people that have decided to separate, divorce or are trying to deal with changes in family relationships, mediation is an invaluable tool in helping to reach an agreement. Mediators are trained to help discuss and reach an agreement…
Is mediation effective?
Mediation is a form of dispute resolution (ADR) that is actively encouraged and sometimes mandatory, by the courts as a way of settling disputes rather than going through formal and expensive court proceedings. It is often preferred by disputing parties as a much more efficient form of dispute…
Mediation or meditation?
After asking anyone who stood still for long enough, ‘what is mediation?’ it has become apparent that most people do not really know what mediation is. It is also…
How neighbour disputes can get out of hand.
Dealing with nuisance neighbours can take over your life. Whether the dispute is over noise, boundaries, kids or shared access to driveways, a poor relationship with those that live close to us can cause untold stress and misery not to mention a fortune in legal bills. A report published…
How Do I Resolve a Dispute with my Builder or any other Tradesman?
If you have had any work carried out at your home and there is a problem which has been caused by the tradesman, you are entitled to get it put right or get some or all of your money back. Ok firstly, let’s look at what…
A true life example of why you must try mediation.
Jack and Jill were a couple: they were young, inexperienced and naïve, yet despite the difficulties and challenges in their relationship, they were doing pretty well – Jack had a good job, Jill was attending college and working part time, they had a lovely 2…
European Code of Conduct for Mediators
The European Code of Conduct for Mediators sets out the following principles: 1. COMPETENCE AND APPOINTMENT OF MEDIATORS 1.1 Competence Mediators shall be competent and knowledgeable in the process of mediation. Relevant factors shall include proper training and continuous updating of their education…
How Does Your Mediator Add Value?
Guest post by Bernard Morrow - Morrow Mediation
Most of us don’t go to the symphony to watch the conductor or to a sporting event to see the referees in action but imagine the chaos without their participation. In the same vein, you’re unlikely to have…
High Hedge Disputes and How to Resolve Them Successfully
In this article, we are going to look at the problematic subject of high hedges and what you can do to resolve disputes on this subject. There is no doubt that this is an issue that can cause untold misery, cost, hostility and the breakdown of previously cordial relationships. So firstly…