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The Benefits of Mediation in Resolving Family Conflicts

Family conflicts are an inevitable part of life. Whether it's a disagreement minor issues or more serious issues like divorce, child custody, or inheritance disputes, conflict is bound to arise. In these moments, finding a resolution that is fair, amicable and respects the emotions of all parties involved becomes crucial.…

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Divorce and Your Mental Health: The Importance of Seeking Professional Support

Divorce is a seismic life event that can have far-reaching effects on an individual's mental health. The emotional toll of ending a marriage…

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Navigating the Holidays: A Comprehensive Guide to Coping with the First Christmas After Divorce

The holiday season, with its festive cheer and family gatherings, can become a complex emotional terrain for those who have recently gone through a divorce, particularly parents facing their first Christmas without their children.…

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Understanding Financial Consent Orders: A Comprehensive Guide

Understanding Financial Consent Orders: A Comprehensive Guide Introduction In the complex landscape of divorce proceedings, financial matters often stand out as critical elements that…

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The Psychology of Conflict Resolution

Conflict is an inevitable part of human interaction. Whether it's a disagreement with a friend, a clash of ideas at work, or a dispute within a family, conflicts arise in various forms and intensities. What sets individuals apart is not the absence…

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How to Make Divorce Less Stressful

A Comprehensive Guide on How to Make Divorce Less Stressful Introduction Divorce is a challenging life transition that can evoke a wide range of emotions, from grief and anger to confusion and anxiety. The…

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Mediation in the Workplace: Enhancing Employee Relations for a Harmonious Work Environment

Mediation in the Workplace: Enhancing Employee Relations for a Harmonious Work Environment In the dynamic landscape of the modern workplace, conflicts among employees are inevitable. Whether rooted in differing perspectives, communication breakdowns, or competing interests, these conflicts can create tension…

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A Comprehensive Guide to Effective Communication

Embarking on the journey of mediation is a unique opportunity for positive change. It's a chance to address conflicts directly, fostering resolutions that benefit all parties involved. At the heart of this transformative process lies effective communication. In this blog we will explore…

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Mediation in the Digital Age: Navigating Conflict Resolution Online

In today's digital age where the virtual realm is deeply integrated into our daily lives, it's no surprise that mediation, a traditional form of conflict resolution, has adapted and embraced digital transformation. This evolution is often referred to as Online Dispute Resolution (ODR), a contemporary approach to resolving conflicts,…

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Co-Parenting Success: Tips for Effective Communication After Divorce

Divorce can be a challenging and emotionally charged process, especially when children are involved. However, it doesn't mark the end of your relationship with your ex-spouse; it…

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The Impact of Divorce on Children

The Impact of Divorce on Children: Signs to Watch For and How to Help Divorce is a complex and emotionally charged experience for all parties involved, but it can be particularly challenging for children. The dissolution of…

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The Benefits of an Amicable Divorce Settlement

Divorce is undoubtedly one of life's most challenging experiences, both emotionally and financially. The dissolution of a marriage often involves a complex web of emotions, legal processes and financial considerations. However amid the turmoil, there's a path that can lead to a smoother transition—the amicable divorce settlement. In…

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Impact of Social Media on Divorce

In the digital age, social media has become an integral part of our lives. It connects us with friends, family and even strangers from around the world.…

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What is Parental Responsibility?

Parental Responsibility (PR) is a legal term that outlines the rights, duties, powers, responsibilities and authority parents have regarding their child’s upbringing and well-being.…

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Representing Yourself In Court

A litigant in person, often referred to by the abbreviation "LiP," is an individual who has made the conscious decision to represent themselves in legal proceedings, foregoing the involvement or representation of…

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The Phenomenon of Grey Divorce

Navigating Life's Later Chapters In recent decades a new trend has emerged in the realm of relationships and family dynamics: the "grey divorce." This term…

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The Emotional Toll of Divorce

The Emotional Toll of Divorce: Navigating a Sea of Emotions Divorce is a life-altering event that marks the end of a significant chapter in a person's life. Beyond the legal and financial aspects, divorce takes an immense emotional toll on all parties involved—spouses,…

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Managing Long-Distance Child Arrangements

Nurturing Relationships In today's increasingly globalized world it is not uncommon for parents to find themselves living in different cities, counties or even countries. When a family faces the challenge of managing long-distance…

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Being a Litigant in Person in Financial Proceedings

Navigating the Legal Landscape Alone: Financial proceedings within the United Kingdom's legal system can be intricate and demanding, particularly during divorce or separation. When one embarks on this legal journey without…

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Adversarial Court Process

Navigating the adversarial court process for financial orders during a divorce in the UK can be a challenging and complex experience. In the United Kingdom, obtaining a fair and just financial settlement is…

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Achieving Fairness in Marital Financial Settlements

Marital financial settlements hold immense importance in divorce proceedings within the UK, ensuring an equitable division of assets and liabilities. This article delves into the…

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How To Be A Good Single Parent

Navigating Parenthood Solo: A Guide to Being a Good Single Parent Introduction Being a single parent comes with its unique set of challenges and rewards. It necessitates strength, resilience and love beyond measure. The journey of single parenthood demands courage and determination to provide the best for your child,…

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The Pitfalls of a 'Kitchen Table Agreement' in Divorce Financial Settlements

Divorce can be a complex and emotionally charged process, especially when it comes to dividing assets and settling financial matters. In some cases, couples attempt to reach an agreement without involving formal legal procedures, often referred to as a "kitchen table agreement." While this approach may seem amicable and…

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How to Broach the Subject of Divorce

A Guide to Delicate Conversations. Divorce is a deeply personal and emotionally charged topic and discussing it with your spouse is a delicate matter. This conversation can shape the future for both parties, impacting…

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A Guide to Life After Divorce

Life After Divorce in a Digital Age Divorce remains a significant life-altering event and the process of adjusting to life after divorce continues to evolve. The Legal…

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Who Are CAFCASS?

CAFCASS stands for the Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service It is an important agency in the United Kingdom, operates independently and is responsible for representing the interests of children involved in family court cases. Its primary…

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Most Common Reason for Divorce in the UK

The reasons for divorce in the UK are many and varied: here are some of the re-occurring and most common reasons: Communication Breakdown In many cases, the breakdown of effective communication within a marriage serves as a primary catalyst for…

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The No Fault Divorce System in the UK

The UK’s No-Fault Divorce Process: A Breakthrough in Marital Dissolution Divorce has long been a challenging and emotionally taxing process, both for…

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Pension Sharing on Divorce

Pensions are considered to be marital assets and must be taken into account in the divorce financial settlement. A pension can be either: • Defined benefit pension or a defined contribution pension. • Defined benefit pension is based on salary and…

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What If I Do Not Agree to Mediation?

If you choose not to agree to mediation in the UK, there are several potential consequences that you should be aware of. Mediation is a process that involves…

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Consequences Of Not Following A Child Arrangements Order

In the UK when a court issues a child arrangements order, it outlines the specific arrangements regarding the living and contact arrangements for a child when their parents are separated or divorced. This order is legally binding and…

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Effects of Separation and Divorce on Children

The effects of parents splitting up on children are profound and far-reaching, influencing their emotional, psychological and social well-being. Divorce or separation can introduce significant challenges and changes into a child's life, often…

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When A Child Doesn't Want to Visit Other Parent

Navigating a Delicate Situation: When a Child Doesn't Want to Go to the Other Parent Divorce or separation can be a tumultuous experience for all parties involved, especially children. One common…

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What Is A Child Arrangements Order?

A Child Arrangements Order (CAO) in the United Kingdom is a legal instrument of considerable significance, established under the aegis of the Children Act 1989. This legislative provision is designed to resolve and elucidate…

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Mediation Services in the UK

Mediation Services in the UK: Facilitating Resolution and Enhancing Relationships Mediation has emerged as a vital and effective process in resolving conflicts across various domains within the United Kingdom. With its emphasis on fostering open communication, understanding and compromise, mediation…

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Your Guide To Child Maintenance

Child maintenance is a crucial aspect of ensuring the well-being of children after a separation or divorce. In the United Kingdom, the government has established guidelines and systems to facilitate fair…

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A Comprehensive Guide to Child Arrangements

Child arrangements (often referred to as child custody or parenting plans), play a crucial role in ensuring the well-being and stability of children whose parents are separated or divorced. Creating effective child arrangements requires careful consideration, open communication and a focus on the…

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Ultimate Guide To Mediation

Mediation is a process of resolving conflicts between parties with the help of a neutral third party, often referred to as a mediator. Here's the ultimate mediation guide to help facilitate effective dispute resolution: The Mediator…

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Impact of Going to Court for a Child Arrangements Order

Going through a child arrangements court case can be a challenging and emotionally taxing experience for all parties involved - most importantly, the children. • Emotional Stress Child arrangements cases often involve high emotions as the well-being and custody of the children are at stake.…

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Financial Considerations Relating to Separation & Divorce

A divorce or breakdown of a marriage can have significant financial implications for both parties involved. Some of the key financial aspects to consider are: 1. Division of…

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Family Mediation

Family mediation can help you resolve issues arising from relationship or family breakdowns. It can also help you save money by avoiding using…

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Pension Sharing on Divorce

The value of any pension assets must be taken into account in any divorce settlement (also applies to civil partnerships) If there is a disparity in how much each party has by way of total pension provision, there may well need to be some…

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Financial Consent Orders

WHAT IS A CONSENT ORDER? Sometimes referred to as a 'clean break order', a consent order is an agreement between two consenting adults which details how their marital assets will be split and makes that agreement legally binding. Most divorcing couples think…

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No Fault Divorce

No fault divorce came into effect in England and Wales in April 2022. This means that couples are now able to…

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5 Considerations For Couples Who Have Decided To Separate

CONSIDERATIONS 1. Remember that your partner might not be on the same page as you. You may have decided that you want to separate a long time ago but that’s not necessarily the case for your partner. Whereas you may have had time to…

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Mediation V Court - Pros & Cons

COST Mediation: is a much more cost effective way to resolve a dispute. The role of a good mediator is to get you…

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What are the benefits of family mediation?

For people that have decided to separate, divorce or are trying to deal with changes in family relationships, mediation is an invaluable tool in helping to reach an agreement. Mediators are…

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Is mediation effective?

Mediation is a form of dispute resolution (ADR) that is actively encouraged and sometimes mandatory, by the courts as a way…

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Mediation or meditation?

After asking anyone who stood still for long enough, ‘what is mediation?’ it has become apparent that most people do not really know what mediation is. It is also apparent that if that question is searched online, the answer is likely to include…

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How neighbour disputes can get out of hand.

Dealing with nuisance neighbours can take over your life. Whether the dispute is over noise, boundaries, kids or shared access to driveways, a poor relationship with those that live close to us can cause untold stress…

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How Do I Resolve a Dispute with my Builder or any other Tradesman?

If you have had any work carried out at your home and there is a problem which has been caused by the tradesman, you are…

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A true life example of why you must try mediation.

Jack and Jill were a couple: they were young, inexperienced and naïve, yet despite the difficulties and challenges in their relationship, they were doing pretty well – Jack had a good job, Jill…

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European Code of Conduct for Mediators

The European Code of Conduct for Mediators sets out the following principles: 1. COMPETENCE AND APPOINTMENT OF MEDIATORS 1.1 Competence Mediators shall be competent and knowledgeable in the process of mediation. Relevant factors shall include proper training and continuous updating of their education and…

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How Does Your Mediator Add Value?

Guest post by Bernard Morrow - Morrow Mediation

Most of us don’t go to the symphony to watch the conductor or to a sporting event to see the referees in action but imagine the chaos without their participation. In the same vein, you’re unlikely to have a productive…

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High Hedge Disputes and How to Resolve Them Successfully

In this article, we are going to look at the problematic subject of high hedges and what you can do…

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